So one comment on a forum making it unambiguosly clear that it is a terrible idea constitutes TONES of abuse now? I didn't even attack you personally and say you were a bad person or anything, i attacked the preposterous idea of mixing these three species, and that's fully justified because it is a really bad idea....
I'm sorry if criticism makes you feel abused...but it is your responsability as a keeper to provide adequate care for your animals and before you even knew what it was you had in your hands, you were thinking about mixing it with other animals. That makes me angry, i have no problem admitting it and it definitely doesn't trigger a desire to handle the subject with kid gloves, but rather to make it absolutely clear in no uncertain terms that it is an insane thing to even consider. So, no, i wasn't particularly nice and patient about it and i didn't guide you by the hand. That's because a) this was a surreal thing to read and b) i prioritise the well being of your animals over your feelings...sorry....
I'm sure i'm making it much worse with this post, no doubt.