Mike
Every Autumn the male tries to mate with the larger, plumper female (which makes sense) and bullies the smaller one. I remove the smaller female during the breeding season. I haven't got any scientific proof of this behaviour, but the Belgian Paramesotriton expert Henri Jansens said his fuzhongensis form a pair too. I think I am right in thinking that Pachytriton form pairs in this way as well.
You are right to say that this is a small sample size, and the animals are neither in their natural habitat nor monitored 24/7, but the smaller female i have has never produced eggs, even though the male has successfully mated with the other female...
As you said, this may well be a misplaced observation, but I think there is at least some truth in it.
Chris