The rounded tip is mostly associated with females, actually.
I´d say it´s a male, too, judging by the general morphology and the shorter tail, but since it is out of breeding season and the cloaca is therefore in an "inactive state" i would leave a little bit of doubt. It COULD be female, but i doubt it very much.
I have a young male, fully mature that is under 6cm long (less than 2,4 inches) so yeah, they can be pretty small. They continue to grow throughout their lives, though, so they do get larger, but nevertheless more than 8cm for a male is rare.
I see it´s missing a limb, is the wound progressing well? Was it caused by a tank mate or did you acquire it in that state?