BarTigerSal -- I just wanted to chime in to say that you're not alone in having been picked on for being a female who's into herps. I'm sure all of us ladies have been there at some time or another. (My ultimate moment was a 13 year old boy with a brand new pet anaconda lecturing me on what species it was. Yeah. Somehow, I doubt he or his parents had a long-term plan for that snake's housing. I was ~23 at the time. I don't quite know which was more annoying: being lectured by an adolescent I didn't even know, or being the target of a lecture because he assumed that, as I woman, I couldn't possibly know anything about snakes.) Sorry. Off topic, I know, but I just had to add it. I know not all y'all male caudata members make assumptions about the ladies.
My favorite salamander behaviour: Artie, one of my axolotls, has taken to sitting in the foodbowl for hours. I worry a little about food aggression, but he's as likely to do this when the bowl's empty as when it's full; he comes and goes throughout the day, but he'll sit there for an hour or so at a time.