It is my understanding, and I hope one of the experts will correct me if I'm wrong, but for species that live in slow, or still waters, they require little to no current.
As long as you have cycled your tank properly, clean up uneaten food, and do regular maintanace work, you should be fine without the filter.
And I'm not too sure what you mean by your biological filter needs it. You have taken out the filter, so why would you keep the aerator? It's not crucial for you to have it in there. Usually, when keeping live plants however, then you will need the water to be highly oxygenated.
Either way, like I said, if I'm wrong someone will step in and correct any misleadings. As for now, my advice to you is follow what advice you have already been given. If they told you to reduce the current... than do so. Which, from the sounds of it, means taking out the aerator too.
Good luck.